Thursday, June 28, 2012

Behind the Smile: a thank you poem to 30STM


Behind her smile are many secrets

But she will never tell

Kept far away…from her mind’s eye

For if not, she will die

The pain she will not bare...she not dare…

Stand firm in the façade…to go on

Behind those eyes are the lies

Delusions to carry on

When will she ascend to the place she belongs?

What will it take to move on?

A voice….a word….a song

For all the lies are no more

Dreams are waiting to be claimed….

They will be heard….

Beams of light from her face….

Dreams will help her take her place…


The above poem was written in response to what a music group/rock band named 30 Seconds to Mars has done for me. Bizarre! Right? Wrong! Have you listened to their lyrics? I mean really listened? Have you listened to their message? I mean really listened? It is easy to hear their music, but have you looked and listened beyond the occassional "F" word?



Jared Leto, Shannon Leto, and Tomo Milicevic are the members of this band that I seem to be completely in love with. They call themselves 30 Seconds to Mars.



Some of you know me as a devout Christian (was raised Catholic than started to attend a more Pentecostal church these past few years). I believe in God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost (the Trinity).



So if I am a Christian why in the world would I listen to secular music? Is this not to be considered a sin? I ask this: "who decides what is sin and not sin?" If you are a believer, your answer would be God decides what sin is. We are all sinners. Each and every one of us. The best we can do is to love and do our best to be kind to one another during our time on this earth.



I have been disappointed by priests, pastors, elders, Christians, so called believers in Christ my whole life. The hypocrisy, the judgment, the failure to show and live love and mercy. God is a god of mercy over judgment.



I was in a place of self discovery and awakening when I first heard a 30STM song. It was Closer to the Edge. I literally cried. My entire life, I was "not enough" for anyone. I wasn't thin enough. I wasn't rich enough. I wasn't a Christian enough. I can go on forever. I will spare you the tedious task of telling you how I have been trying to be someone I am not supposed to be. All this time, I have hidden the real me. I have been a people pleaser for 44 years.

If you are young at reading this, I implore you DO NOT MAKE the same mistake. Embrace who you are and make NO apologies for it.

I listened to every single Mars song ever recorded. I have spent a small fortune on ITunes. I have watched every YouTube video on this band and these men. I have watched every movie and TV episode Jared Leto has ever been in.

God has used a rock band to finally reach me at a level no one has been able to before. Bare with me here, in the bible there is a scripture in the book of Numbers that God actually uses a donkey to speak. Hey, if God can use a donkey, who says he can't use Jared, Shannon, and Tomo? Who says God can't use you or me to speak to people?

I love this band/these men, because they are real, sincere, and they love what they do and who they are. There is NOT one false pretense about them. You either love them or you just don't "get it". I love them! It may even  be a bit scandalous how much I love them and appreciate the message they are living. 

 I workout everyday for 60 min and only listen to Mars music.  Oddly, I have cried during my workout.  It has been such a healing and cleansing experience to take control of my life and health and to listen to these words that resonate so deeply within my soul. The conflict between good/evil, light/dark, the conflict within us all of finding ourselves and loving what we find. 

I have always told my sons to dream big, work hard, never give up, never back down, and always stand firm in who you are! Then here I am listening to a band giving the same message. I realized that how can I tell my sons this message but fail to live it myself. Talk about HYPOCRITE. I have forgotten my dreams. I have been living everyone else’s' dreams for me.

Because of Mars, I decided to take control of my life. I started working out. Eating healthier. Living in the moment and not  giving a shit what others think of me! I like the real me. ♥

My youngest son, Scotty is 10 years old and has Angelman Syndrome. He also has fallen in love with this band. He watches their videos (the appropriate ones ;) and listens to their music with me. He loves to rock out to Closer to the Edge and Search and Destroy the most. He absolutely loves to watch Shannon in action. Scotty is fascinated with the drums







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Finally, I love the Echelon. Not sure if I can correctly call myself a member as of yet. But I have to tell you, I have already been welcomed by so many. The work that Mars and the Echelon are doing for the betterment of mankind and this earth is beyond commendable. This is what God has taught us to be. Living a life of love, generosity, compassion, mercy, and grace. Jared, Shannon, Tomo, and the Echelon are living proof there is a God and He will use any us to reach the desperate and the lost.







Friday, June 15, 2012

WHAT REALLY MATTERS


As I lay here  with my 10 yo son, Scotty (who has Angelman Syndrome)  as he sleeps with a leg on my stomach and his hands on my head...he just can't get close enough tonight.  I am unable to sleep.  Angel parents are used to sleepless nights for so many reasons:  our angels like to have "parties" through out the late hours/they tend to have an increase in seizure activity at night/or they just won't go to sleep 'cuz that is the fun of being an Angel.  Scotty used to sleep in his own bed for the past 9 1/2 years, however for several months he has had anxiety and needs to sleep next to me (on top of me is more like it).

Some nights I complain, some nights I wish he would go back to his own bed, but tonight, I am thankful he is next to me.  It is a reminder of what really matters in my life.

He matters, his happiness matters, his health matters, each breath he takes matters.  My heart is heavy once again because another Angel, Kelce, has been put into a medically induced coma to stop her seizures. due to complications and infections, her devoted family has made the heart wrenching decision to no longer have her on life support.  This is an incomprehensible task that many Angel families have faced through the years.  It is a moment that each of Angel parents dread, fear, and worry about.

I have never met Kelce, but I have grown to love her as my own because this Angel community of ours has the unique way of loving and giving of ourselves like no other.  We understand each other.  We don't need to meet in person to love one another.  We have facebook, email, text, notes, and phones to connect with one another.  Sometimes, words don't even need to be spoken.  We just know we are loved and our Angels are loved.

I have always been a person who prayed.  However, I have never prayed so much in my life as I have the past few years since I. became a member of this incredible family of Angels and their parents.  

When an Angel passes to earn their heavenly wings, a piece of every Angel parent's heart goes with them.  I lay here  with such a heavy heart that I cannot breathe.  I pray for a miracle tomorrow for Kelce.  I pray that no matter what happens, that Erin MacEachern Hazelton and Janet Santos MacEachern and their family know that they are not alone.  I pray that they receive supernatural strength and courage to get through this.  I pray that they feel all of our love surrounding them and Kelce.

So what really matters is not if my son sleeps in his own bed, is ever potty trained, or if he pulls my hair, what matters is that he is here next to me, sleeping, breathing, and healthy...for now.

Monday, April 30, 2012

Why I Love Colin Farrell

I know most men, including my husband just rolled their eyes.  Please bare with me and keep reading, the reasons might not be the obvious ones.

If I am to be honest here, I have never seen a movie that starred Mr. Farrell until January 2012.  I occasionally saw a picture of Colin here and there with the headlines:  "Bad boy of Hollywood" or something to that regard.  In passing I would glance at the picture, and think to myself, "hmmm, he is handsome", but would go on with my day.  When Colin's career really started to take off, I was in my own dramas.  The dramas of divorce, raising 2 small boys on my own, moving from Minnesota back to my home in Buffalo, NY.   Experiencing the drama of failure and starting over, I really didn't have much time to pine over some hot, sexy, brooding Irishman.

In 2001, I remarried, and in 2002 I had my third son.  Scotty was different from the onset of pregnancy.  A very high risk pregnancy, lots of bed rest, and many scares of losing him before he was born.  Let's fast forward, in 2003, at one year old, Scotty is diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy and Epilepsy.  Many doctors, specialists, and neurologists later, he was finally correctly diagnosed with Angelman Syndrome in 2009(at 7 1/2 years old).  Angelman Syndome!?  WTH...All I knew about this syndrome was that the children flap their hands all the time.  I was wrong, that is just one of the possible traits.  My son is a textbook case of AS.  He is Del + and has 97% of the symptoms and characteristics of AS.

I am a mom to 3 very beautiful and unique sons.  They all have their own special needs.  We all do.  However, Scotty's definition of special needs was a bit deeper than what yours and my needs might be.  I felt so very alone in the day to day caring of my son.  "Nobody understood or got what we were going through", or so I thought.  I was introduced to this incredible hip thing called 'facebook'.  My older children were mortified that I signed up and had my own account.  As a mom, I must admit, it was to stalk and snoop on my sons' pages to learn things I didn't want to know and things I should know.

FB turned out to be the catalyst to finding a community that I am forever grateful for.  The Angelman Family..we are a hodge podge of people: parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and siblings of individuals with AS.  We come from all over the world and all walks of life.  We are teachers, doctors, construction workers, business owners, philanthropists, full time parents, nurses, athletes, and even actors.

Yes, this is when I fell in love with Colin Farrell.  I was introduced to him through Foundation for Angelman Syndrome Therapeutics (FAST  www.cureangleman.org).  I watched him on Ellen, Letterman, Leno, and any other talk show I could find on Youtube.  I met him in person at the FAST Gala on Dec 3, 2011.  He shook my hand, I kissed his cheek.  We spoke briefly of our similar experiences of the wrong diagnoses for our sons.  His son, James is one year younger than Scotty and was also misdiagnosed with CP.  I learned in that brief encounter that this man is as humble, loving, caring, and genuine as they come.  I did my best to NOT be that stalker fan.  I contained my composure, I was as reserved as I could possibly be.  However, later on telling everyone else how I kissed his cheek..I sounded much like the 16 year old girl with a mad crazy crush with the screams/screeches and all.

Colin spoke at this GALA, and there was not a dry eye in the room. As he talks of his journey with his son, James, Colin's voice trembles.  He spoke from the heart and soul of what it is like to be a father of an Angel.  He spoke words and sentiments that all the Angel dads (and moms) feel and experience every day.  He spoke of how his son has brought him to be a better man.  That his own son is really raising him with his tremulous hand.  I could not contain my tears (and some embarrassing sobs).  My husband, who was an avid drinker also shared a similar story as Mr. Farrell.  Giving up drinking and working at becoming a better man.  A man and father their angels deserve.

I can tell you all the obvious reasons why I love Colin Farrell.  I have watched every single movie this man has been in.  I had quite the Colin movie marathon this month.  As I watched these movies, I got to know this man, actor, father, person on a whole new level.  He is an incredible actor with great range and depth.  He is believable in every role he has played.  His eyes can describe his emotion without speaking a sound.  He is fearless in every roll.  He bares his soul. ( May I mention, that he bares more than his soul in some roles :).  He is very handsome, sexy, and quite the impressive actor.  However, these are not the reasons why I love this man.

I love Colin Farrell for the same reason I love my husband and other Angel dads.  His commitment to his Angel and his family.  His love and pure admiration for his Angel.  His dedication to make a difference in this world to inform others of AS and to move forward in sharing some intimate moments in his life. 

Colin like so many fathers of Angels wear their hearts on their sleeves.
 They love with all of their might, they advocate, they protect, they love, they live to see a better life for their Angels.  Some of these dads are doing it alone, some have help, and some have lost their Angels too soon to seizures. 

I love Colin Farrell because he is a man and a father who loves deeply.  He (like other Angel dads) is imperfect, human, yet open, and transparent:  He is like so many other Angel dads, fearless.

This is for all the Angel dads out there.  Sending you love, honor, and respect.









Sunday, February 5, 2012

oh so humbled

In the darkness, there was hope.  In the despair, I found love.  In the lies of my mind, I found the truth.
I am not proud of myself for breaking, however, I am boastful of a loving God who has shown me grace and mercy.  I knew my husband loved me, but through these past few weeks, I have found that my hubby loves me UNCONDITIONALLY!


God has restored my faith in hope and love.  I am a girl who has grown into a woman who happens to be a wife and a mother.   A wife and momma who found herself in a place of destruction.  I am thankful for all of you who reached out to me (us) in our time of need.  On the surface, it may have appeared to be a material need.  In all honesty, it was a need of human kindness and love.  My husband, children,  Angelman family, and my new church family really showed me what love is.  Love is given freely.  Love is not a thing or object.  Love is an action.  You all acted in and out of love and I am forever humbled by your hearts.

Thank you.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Where is God Amongst the Crazy?


1/31/2012






I met Him in the psychiatric triage unit at Buffalo General Hospital on 1/30/2012.  He was in the eyes of a 53 year old dad/ grandpa who hears voices that tell him to hurt himself.  He was in the heart of a 43 year old woman who cuts herself when she is anxious.  He was there with a teen addict who recently was hit by a car and now suffers from daily seizures.  I saw a glimpse of Him in a married woman’s voice as she told of a night of too much drinking and taking 2 pills she knew she should have not taken.  Even a homeless woman who claims to see demons and wasn’t sure if we were in hell or limbo or waiting to be reborn.

I am nothing more than a married woman with 3 sons.  One happens to be an Angel on Earth who has changed my life forever.  On this day, I broke.  The world succeeded and I fell.  The white flag was flailing.  With all the responsibilities of a mom to two strong willed sons and a mom to an angel, wife, business owner, and student, I finally waved my arms in defeat.  The weight of finances and their lacking, the nut cracked.  That nut was me. 

I normally show a strong front and a smiling face.  Unfortunately, I forgot to do one simple thing.  I forgot to let go and let God lead me.  I forgot that I was loved.  I forgot that I wasn’t alone.  I believed the lies in my head and heart that nobody cared.  I believed the lies that I had to handle everything on my own.  I believed in the fatal thought that there was no hope.

God can and does work through every situation.  I regained my faith and hope amongst many other psychiatric patients waiting to be evaluated to determine if we stay or go.   As I sat there waiting many hours to be interviewed and evaluated, I tried to avoid eye contact and sat in a corner.  I looked my part of a mental health patient.  

There was Wendell pacing back and forth waiting for me to look up to notice him.  I wouldn’t.  He sat next to me.  I cried just wanting to go home to my husband and children and sobbed in question how on earth did I end up here? 

Meal time has arrived.  I meekly took my white paper bag of milk, cookie, turkey sandwich, and pear.  I ate the pear in silence.  Wendell eagerly ate his dinner, still trying to make eye contact.  I caved and turned and he asked “you gonna eat your sandwich?”  I handed my bag to him with a smile.  He whispered to me: “you will be all right.”  Tears fell down my face.  It must have been obvious that I was a first timer.  We chatted a long time and others joined us.  I asked him why he was there and he told me that he hears voices and they tell him to kill himself.  He has swallowed bleach, overdosed on prescription drugs, has tried to hang himself, and recently the voices told him to jump off of the skyway.  I proceeded to inquire about his family and life.  He has 4 children and 3 grandchildren and a wife who all love him.  However, he still feels alone and the voices won’t quiet down.  Wendell was my protector for the rest of the evening.  He made sure that another patient stayed away from as he tried to approach me and tell me I was “hot” and if I wanted a new boyfriend.  Wendell told him to not talk or look at me again.  

Other patients began to tell their stories and why they were there.  Drug withdrawal, fight with boyfriend, cutting, alcohol and drug reaction, attempted suicides, seeing demons, and one gentleman relapsed after 6 years of being clean and sober.  They all wanted to know my story.  I was ashamed to be there.  Not because I didn’t belong.  I was one of them.  I was just like every other person there:  at some point I let  go of the truth, my faith, and hope.   I spoke of my children and Angelman Syndrome.  I spoke of seizures and meds.  I spoke of me being brought here against my will.  We had our own group therapy session going on.  We laughed, we cried, we even prayed for one another. 

As some of them shared where they go for counseling as an outpatient.  I admitted that I had worked at two of the establishments they spoke of when I was younger.  I was a mental health therapist for several years as a young graduate.  They all looked at me with eyes widened and jaws dropped.  I said, “yup we are just as crazy as the rest of the world”.  The laughter that came from the room caused the nurse to come in and check on us.  She said she wished there was so much fun on this ward every night and told me I can come back anytime.  I smiled and politely declined with a giggle.

Why am I sharing this story with you?  Because God used these people to remind me that amongst all the crazy He is there.  Amidst the sorrow, He is there.  We are never alone.  I have people who love me and would risk our friendship and force me to go to the hospital for psychiatric evaluation.  I have an AS family that love me more than I can imagine.  Some of you have never met me and yet have reached out to help us in our desperate time of need.   I have children who love me and need me.  I have many many angels on earth.  I just have to open my heart and eyes to see and feel them.

I am home now and plan to never ever let go of God’s promises and hope again.




Sunday, January 1, 2012

My confession and declaration for a new year

Welcome to 2012!  It has been an interesting start in our household.  I have decided to stand up for myself.  Looking back on my 44 years, I have noticed a pattern of allowing people, including family and people I love, to hurt, disrespect, mistreat, and ignore me.  I often avoid conflict.  Which I have noticed is a mistake in itself.  I can no longer allow people to say whatever they want to- to us or about us (my family that is).

Don't get me wrong, I believe that love can conquer all.  I still believe in God's words spoken over us of His promises.  I believe in Jesus Christ.  However, I do not believe God, our heavenly father and creator intended for us to allow ourselves to  be stepped on, abused, mistreated, etc.  We are allowed righteous anger.  We are allowed to stand up for ourselves.  From now on, the first sign of abuse (emotional, physical, or spiritual)  I will confront the source.  I will NO longer stand by and allow this mistreatment to continue.

I am so thankful for God and His wisdom and His patience with me.  I know 44 years is a very long time for a somewhat intelligent woman to finally get it.  Just because I call myself a Christian..doesn't mean I  should allow people to treat me or mine like crap!

I have this nasty habit of allowing people to talk to me and my children any which way they choose.  I tend to bite my tongue and avoid conflict any chance I can.  I put my smile on my face and take the hit.  But than the hit becomes a beating.  How long can one person take this abuse?  I ask you to consider this:  Why when we see an injustice to others, as Believers, we will stand up and speak up...but when we are witness to injustice and abuse to ourselves, we say NOTHING! 
I am one of God's creations, am I not?  Don't I deserve to be loved as I have loved? 

It takes a lot for me to reach out and ask for help.  So when I do, it is a HUGE thing.  However, each time I have asked for help from a source that you would think would come to your side, answers NO..time and time again, wouldn't it make sense for me to learn to carry on without their help?  I have learned to do the best I can with what I have without expecting anything from my parents or sisters.  I love them with all of my heart.  However, having a child with special needs really puts people in two categories:  (1) those who "get it" and (2) those who DON"T!

I can continue and break it down even further to groups of people who do not get it, but admit that they don't and love you and your child anyways..and want to learn how to "get it"..they ask questions, they offer to lend a helping hand..they offer to listen when you need to vent...and then there are those who don't get it..and refuse to get it..and choose to stay in their selfish worlds and choose to stay ignorant and remain in their fear...and pass judgement...and tell you how to love, care for, or raise your child with special needs.

I have NO use for the group of people who choose to stay ignorant and to stay selfish.  I do not ask for much.  Just for some compassion and empathy.  I DO NOT want any one's pity, it does me and my children NO good!  I will take your prayers and kind and sincere words.  I have no time for fakeness or hypocrisy.

My son, Scotty was misdiagnosed with Cerebral Palsy for the first 7 years of his life.  He also has Lennox Gestaut Syndrome (a form of epilepsy that is very difficult to control).  I felt so alone for many years of caring for him.  Until 2009, he was correctly diagnosed with Angelman Syndrome.  It was difficult at first for me to reach out to the AS community.  I tend to do things on my own, or put up the front that I have everything under control.  I am here to confess, I am a MESS most of the time.  Much pain and worry and sorrow are behind this smile of mine.

I have learned to love the life I have (for the most part)..but I have also learned that I do not have to tolerate anyone who does not genuinely and sincerely love me/us.  I will continue to surround myself with those who actually give a crap about me and mine.  I love with all of me...I no longer will accept anything less from anyone else in my life.

This extended AS family has shown me that I am NOT alone.  Families do not always come from a blood line.  Families are brought together with a commonality.  Our AS family does not always agree on everything, however, we do agree on how much we love our Angels...and how much we need one another to get through the endless sleepless nights, the fears of waking up to find your Angel not breathing...I have found some lifelong brothers and sisters through AS.  I am not a big fan of AS and what it does to my Scotty, but I am a fan of who AS has brought into my life.  As I type this I cry for so many reasons.  I cry for all the Angels lost too soon.  I cry for my parents and sisters who choose not to get to know me and my Angel on a more personal level.  I will have to be content with the superficiality of our relationships and just keep smiling through the hurt, disappointment and pain.

I know now who I can trust and rely on.  That is my AS family.  I turn to many of you for encouragement and support.  You may not know it, but I look for your posts and stories to lift me up when I am not my strongest.  I watch your videos to help put that smile back on my face.

I know who loves us.  I know who cares enough to reach out.  I love Scotty's caregivers, Brittany, Angelica, and Hayley who help my load  become little lighter.

I can no longer not speak up or against anyone who is against us.  God is for us, and I will continue to listen to His guidance.  I will follow Him and not any person/man.

I have learned so much since I have allowed Jesus in my heart.  I have learned that just because someone calls themselves a Christian...does not mean they are...just because someone is a pastor, priest, or leader in a church, makes them "right" with God.

When you hear a pastor or priest say at the pulpit:  "God has given me the right to judge"  or "My church, my altar, my decision"  or "that's cute and all, but your son is nothing but a distraction"  or  "as I stand up here and speak to you, it is as if Christ himself is speaking to you"   RUN...Run as fast as you can!!  Do not allow yourself to follow any man...follow only God...He will NEVER let you down or disappoint you.

I have learned to speak up when you learn of gossip about yourself, your  children, and other church members from the pastor.  Do not just sit back and take it....speak up and move on!!!

I want to thank you for reading  my 2012 declaration!  This declaration is part confession and part resolution.

Peace and Blessings be on us all as we embark on a new year!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Best Pracitices in Education For Children with Angelman Syndrome


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Best Practices in Education for Students with Angelman Syndrome

Rita Molino-Sell

Walden University































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Abstract

Children with Angelman Syndrome are globally developmentally disabled creating a variety of needs to consider for cognitive assessment, placement, and instruction.  This paper offers a vision of three stages to increase the opportunities for children with Angelman Syndrome to participate in inclusion.  Best Practices in education need to be considered when creating an IEP for an individual: this includes classroom placement. 































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Best Practices in Education for Students with Angelman Syndrome

            Angelman Syndrome (AS) is a neuro-genetic disorder that creates individuals to be globally delayed.  A partial deletion or mutation in maternal chromosome 15 is the cause of AS.  AS was first described in 1965 by Harold Angelman, who noticed a group of children in his pediatric practice had flat heads, made jerky movements, had protruding tongues, and had a curious high rate of smiling, happy demeanor, and bouts of laughter.  People diagnosed with AS are often referred to as Angels due to the name of the condition and also because of their happy and smiley demeanor.

            Approximately 1/20,000 births are diagnosed with AS.  Because it is a rare and unknown condition by many medical and educational professionals, this population is often underserved in both fields.  Often AS children are misdiagnosed with autism and/or cerebral palsy.  This misdiagnosis often leads to inappropriate educational placement and instruction.  AS individuals have unique abilities and learning styles that need to be considered when assessing and teaching them.

            There are listed consensus criteria to describe and diagnose Angelman Syndrome.  It must be noted that not all Angels will have all of these traits.  It is important to remember that each angel is unique and has his/her own personality traits and learning abilities and style.

            The consensus criteria as per Williams, Beaudet, Clatyton-Smith, et al. (2005):  

·         Developmental delay, functionally severe



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  • Movement or balance disorder, usually ataxia of gait and/or tremulous movement of limbs. Movement disorder can be mild. May not appear as frank ataxia but can be forward lurching, unsteadiness, clumsiness, or quick, jerky motions
  • Behavioral uniqueness: any combination of frequent laughter/smiling; apparent happy demeanor; easily excitable personality, often with uplifted hand-flapping or waving movements; hypermotoric behavior
  • Speech impairment, none or minimal use of words; receptive and non-verbal communication skills higher than verbal ones

Frequent (more than 80%)

  • Delayed, disproportionate growth in head circumference, usually resulting in microcephaly (≤2 S.D. of normal OFC) by age 2 years. Microcephaly is more pronounced in those with 15q11.2-q13 deletions.
  • Seizures, onset usually < 3 yrs. of age. Seizure severity usually decreases with age but the seizure disorder lasts throughout adulthood.
  • Abnormal EEG, with a characteristic pattern, as mentioned in the text. The EEG abnormalities can occur in the first 2 years of life and can precede clinical features, and are often not correlated to clinical seizure events.

Associated (20 - 80%)

  • Flat occiput
  • Occipital groove
  • Protruding tongue
  • Tongue thrusting; suck/swallowing disorders
  • Feeding problems and/or truncal hypotonia during infancy
  • Prognathia
  • Wide mouth, wide-spaced teeth
  • Frequent drooling
  • Excessive chewing/mouthing behaviors
  • Strabismus
  • Hypopigmented skin, light hair and eye color (compared to family), seen only in deletion cases
  • Hyperactive lower extremity deep tendon reflexes
  • Uplifted, flexed arm position especially during ambulation
  • Wide-based gait with pronated or valgus-positioned ankles
  • Increased sensitivity to heat
  • Abnormal sleep wake cycles
  • Attraction to/fascination with water; fascination with crinkly items such as certain papers and plastics
  • Abnormal food related behaviors
  • Obesity (in the older child)

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  • Scoliosis
  •  Chronic Constipation

Upon reading this long list of traits, one might believe this population is severely mentally retarded.  Earlier reports and definitions of AS listed severe mental retardation as the first descriptor of this population (Williams, Fria, Optiz, 2005), however with an increase in awareness and in depth studies, it has been found and believed that Angels are able to learn and have a higher level of cognition and receptive skills than originally thought by professionals (Summers & Szmarti, 2009).

This population is often overlooked for inclusion opportunities due to various reasons:  inappropriate or ineffective assessments, untrained teachers, misguided belief systems regarding inclusion, limited knowledge and awareness of AS, limited funds in school budgets, lowered expectations for this population, and their various needs.

Inclusion opportunities for any special needs population is an age old discussion.  For decades arguments for both sides of inclusion or self-contained classrooms has been going on within districts and parents.  Some districts are better equipped to have successful inclusion programs. The No Child Left Behind Act (NCLB) 2001 primary purpose was to make schools and teachers accountable for how well their students are learning. The Individuals with Disabilities Education Improvement Act of 2004 (IDEA) partnered with NCLB have revised standards for academic achievement for special needs children, along with the measurement of their functional performance.



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 Parents and educators have questions about inclusion and the term Least Restrictive Environment (LRE).  Many believe that the IDEA requires schools to practice inclusion. In fact, the term "inclusion" is relatively new and is not included in the IDEA statute or regulations. The term used in IDEA is “mainstreaming”.  According to www.wrightslaw.com:

The IDEA's LRE or mainstreaming policy, school districts are required to educate students with disabilities in regular classrooms with their nondisabled peers, in the school they would attend if not disabled, to the maximum extent appropriate.

            It is often a misunderstanding that IDEA states that it is the law and a “right” to have full inclusion for a developmentally disabled child.  There are times when a self-contained classroom would be most appropriate for a given student.  However, it is imperative to acknowledge that all factors need to be considered when making the decision for a student’s Individualized Education Program (IEP) for full inclusion, partial inclusion, or a self-contained classroom.  Parent involvement is a critical aspect of the decision making as well.

            The important question to ask is; realistically, can we expect children with Angelman Syndrome to thrive in inclusion programs or are they destined for self-contained classrooms?  What are the best practices for this population in regards to assessment, instruction, and placement?

Best Practices in Education

            What does the term “Best Practices” mean?  It can be defined as “what works” in a particular environment or situation.   Grover J. Whitehurst, as assistant secretary for Educational Research and Improvement at the U.S. Department of Education in 2001, defined evidence-

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based education as “the integration of professional wisdom with the best available empirical evidence in making decisions about how to deliver instruction.”  The application of educational theory and research to make decisions for a child’s education involves more than how to deliver instruction, it also involves decision making for assessments and placement not just instruction.

            According to the State Education Resource Center (www.ctserc.org) there are nine standards to assess Best Practices:

1.       A Clear and Common Focus;  Administrators, teachers, students, and parents share and commit to clearly articulated and understood common goals based on the fundamental belief that all students can learn and improve their performance.  There is clear evidence of school practices to support this belief

2.      High Standards and Expectations:  Each teacher believes “all students can learn and I can teach them.” Staff members are dedicated to helping every student achieve challenging state and local standards.  All students are engaged in an appropriately ambitious and rigorous course of study in which the high standards of performance are clear and consistent and the conditions for learning are modified and differentiated.  This results in all students being prepared.

3.      Strong Leadership: School leadership is focused on enhancing the skills, knowledge, and motivation of the people in the organization and creating a common culture of high expectations based on the use of skills and knowledge to improve the performance of all students. Leadership fosters a collaborative atmosphere between the school and the community while establishing positive systems to improve leadership, teaching, and student performance.

4.      Supportive, Personalized Relevant Learning:  Supportive learning environments provide positive personalized relationships for all students while engaging them in rigorous and relevant learning.

5.      Parent/Community Involvement:  Parents and community members help develop, understand, and support a clear and common focus on core academic, social, and personal goals contributing to improved student performance and have a meaningful and authentic role in achieving these goals. The school community works together to actively solve problems and create win-win solutions. Mentoring and outreach programs provide for two-way learning between students and community/business members.

6.      Monitoring, Accountability, and Assessment:  Teaching and learning are continually adjusted on the basis of data collected through a variety of valid and reliable methods that indicate student progress and needs. The assessment results

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7.      are interpreted and applied appropriately to improve individual student performance and the instructional program

8.      Curriculum and Instruction:  Align curriculum with core learning expectations to improve the performance of all students. Students achieve high standards through rigorous, challenging learning. Staff delivers an aligned curriculum and implements research-based teaching and learning strategies. Students are actively involved in their learning through inquiry, in-depth learning, and performance assessments.

9.      Professional Development:  Ongoing professional development aligned with the school’s common focus and high expectations to improve the performance of all students is critical in high-performing schools. These professional development offerings are focused and informed by research and school/classroom-based assessments. Appropriate instructional support and resources are provided to implement approaches and techniques learned through professional development.

10.  Time and Structure:  Flexibly structured to maximize the use of time and accommodate the varied lives of their students, staff, and community in order to improve the performance of all students. The structure of programs extends beyond the traditional school day and year as well as beyond the school building. The program draws on the entire community’s resources to foster student achievement.



Assessment, Placement, and Instruction

            Having every aspect of development being affected from AS, it may prove to be difficult to accurately assess cognitive abilities.  AS individuals are nonverbal, visually impaired, fine motor and gross motor skills are affected and delayed, many have severe sensory processing disorders, hyperactivity, limited attention span, and many have seizure disorders along with other medical and physical issues.  Any one of these preceding traits can create difficulty and limitations in how accurately a child’s cognitive ability can be assessed.  Cooper (2010) found that in many cases when children who are nonverbal and have significant motor disabilities (such





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as Angelman Syndrome) “may need adaptations of testing materials or processes, specifically of input (presentation) and output (response) modes.”

            Mukhopadhyay & Nwaogu (2009) stated that ”Augmentative Alternative Communication has proven to be beneficial in the instruction of children who are nonverbal Augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) means any method of communication that helps an individual with severe communication disorders to compensate for activity limitation and enhances participation in various communicative interactions.”  Perhaps further research in the use of AAC for assessment purposes would be advantageous in finding and implementing best assessment practices for AS students. There is limited literature on appropriate assessment practices for this specific population.  It would be beneficial to parents, educators, and AS individuals alike if further research was done to review assessment tools and practices for this population. 

            Best practices in placement for children with AS and subsequently instruction and curriculum is a topic that needs further investigation as well.  There are many opinions in regards to inclusion vs. self-contained classrooms.   Implementing best practices in education for this population: assessment, placement, and instruction will fail to occur   if an increase in awareness and knowledge of Angelman Syndrome does not happen.  Misdiagnosis, misunderstanding, and underestimating the abilities and capabilities of a child with AS are also great contributors to the lack of inclusion opportunities for AS children.  I have a vision to improve the opportunities of inclusion.  It will take time, effort, fortitude, and several stages to attain this vision.





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Stage 1:  Increase Awareness and Knowledge

            As stated earlier, misdiagnosis is a primary contributor to the lack of inclusion opportunities for children with Angelman Syndrome.  Many medical professionals do not know of this syndrome or lack extensive knowledge of this disorder to correctly diagnose children.  Often children are misdiagnosed with autism and/or cerebral palsy (Williams, Lossie, & Driscoll, 2001).  There may be some similarities amongst these conditions; however, there are many specific identifying behaviors and traits attributed to Angelman Syndrome.  Another contributor to misdiagnosis could be that parents may be overwhelmed with all of the aspects in caring for a special needs child and not know that their child is misdiagnosed.

 The first step in achieving an increase in AS students in inclusion classrooms is to bring awareness, educate, and inform parents, medical, and educational professionals.  In order to accomplish this, I plan on providing pediatric offices with educational brochures and information regarding the criteria in diagnosing Angelman Syndrome.  The earlier a child is correctly diagnosed the quicker appropriate educational and therapeutic plans can be set into place. 

Stage 2:  Establish the Existing Belief System Towards Inclusion vs. Self-Contained Classrooms

 I will evaluate and analyze various educational trends. I will look at surrounding districts and assess what is working and not working within their inclusion classrooms. Next, I will survey and interview teachers, students, and parents to receive feedback about current teaching practices. I will also look at current belief systems from educators and parents on inclusion including any obstacles or apprehensions to pursue increasing the amount of inclusive

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classrooms.   In order to establish an existing belief system in regards to inclusion vs. self-contained classrooms, a self-administered survey can be implemented for parents and educators. A data analysis of local districts and the percentage of developmentally disabled students placed in their home schools inclusively or segregated or placed in a special school with no opportunity for inclusion.  Also a contrast and comparison amongst districts can be completed to determine satisfaction level of parents and educators with inclusion policies and practices.  Face to face interviews would also be beneficial to acquire a data base to establish current belief systems.  These surveys, interviews, and data analysis, hopefully will contribute to establishing a needs assessment of an increase in the opportunities for children with Angelman Syndrome to be included in educational settings with their non disabled peers.



Stage 3:  Educate and Inform

            Upon completion of gathering and interpreting data, sharing an opportunity with leaders, professionals, and parents to educate and inform them on the benefits inclusion and ways to implement inclusion for students with Angelman Syndrome.  Invitations to open forum discussions and/or lecture style seminars can be beneficial.  Finally, I will develop effective instruction that models and coaches teachers by implementing strategies that promotes profound learning for the diverse population in their classrooms. Support staff will be available as needed for the students with IEPs. Students who require additional services will be able to access those services within their school day and as push in therapy (when possible) and not be entirely segregated from their peers.  McCarty (2006) stated several benefits to inclusion.  “The special



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needs student is able to develop relationships with peers that are non-disabled.  The general education student also benefits from understanding people with disabilities”. 

Academic benefits are not only for the student with special needs but also for general education students.  “Academic benefits for general education students include having additional special education staff in the classroom, providing small-group, individualized instruction, and assisting in the development of academic adaptations for all students who need them” (Hines, 2001, P. 3).  Research has also shown that special-needs students in inclusion do better academically and socially than comparable students in non-inclusive classes (Irmisher, 1995).

There is research that also depicts disadvantages to inclusion.   Increase in support staff equates to increase in cost to districts. Ongoing teacher training adds to the cost as well.  Some have argued that the non-disabled students will lose learning opportunities due to an increase in the special needs students’ disruptive behavior (McCarty, 2006).   Educators and parents of children in general education worry that full inclusion will lower the standard of learning for the class and make it less of a priority than socializing (Irmsher, 1995).  

Conclusion

In order to follow Best Practices throughout the implementation of the stages to increase the opportunities of AS students for inclusion, I will follow and abide by the nine standards listed above.  There is research on inclusion for students with various developmental delays and disabilities. There is limited research on inclusion for students with Angelman Syndrome.  Leyser & Kirk (2011) recently published an article on parent’s perspectives on inclusion and their AS child’s schooling.  This study showed that parents who children who were involved in some form of inclusion had a more favorable attitude toward inclusion compared to parents who

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were mainly educated in segregated settings.   This finding reinforces the need to inform parents of children with Angelman Syndrome all of their options in regard to inclusion.   Many parents shared satisfaction with the positive relationship with teachers they perceived as caring and committed.  Yet 40% of the parents in this study were critical in regards to their relationships with the school and district administration.  Perhaps this is a red flag for leaders to be more open to improve communication and relationship status with parents of special needs children.

I am in complete agreement with Leyser & Kirk (2011) when they stated “future research should continue to examine the perspectives of parents of children with different diagnostic characteristics and educational needs regarding inclusion.”  A thorough and in depth study would benefit this population greatly.  Future research to investigate which forms of alternative assessment and instruction solicit the best responses from AS children is needed to determine appropriate classroom placement. 

Inclusion can be cost-effective if approached and implemented correctly.  Assessing the individual child’s needs and what support systems will need to be in place for the teacher and student in order for inclusion to be considered successful and beneficial to all involved.

 A child with Angelman Syndrome presents unique considerations for inclusion.  Perhaps an additional question that needs to be asked is if total inclusion, partial inclusion, or self-containment is the most appropriate for a child with AS?  More research needs to be done on the benefits of inclusion, and partial inclusion (for example part of the day in self-contained classroom, and part of the day spent in inclusion with non disabled peers) for students with Angelman Syndrome. 



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AS children are capable of learning.   They just have additional special needs that if properly assessed, can thrive in all areas of academia.   In order to step into their full potential, they need the same opportunity to access all the benefits their non disabled counterparts have in education. 

Finally, it must be recognized that each individual has his/her own unique needs, capabilities, learning styles, and disabilities that require individual attention.  Each parent with a special needs child, specifically Angelman Syndrome, needs to be informed of what their options are for their child’s education.  The best decision is a well informed decision.




















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